Trauma Counselling

What describes trauma?

Trauma can be described simply as situations or set of circumstances, actions or a series of events that cause physical, emotional, mental harm or life-threatening experiences to an individual, which results in lasting adverse effects on one’s functioning as well as physical, social, emotional or well-being.
We are discovering trauma is affecting more individuals in various ways than had been understood before the last 10 years. There are numerous trauma-related conditions. It was once believed that military soldiers only experienced trauma, but we have identified many areas of a person’s life that can contribute to trauma. Some examples:
  • Physical abuse
  • Professional burnout
  • Mental abuse
  • Acute Stress
  • Post traumatic stress
  • Domestic Violence
  • Death of someone close
  • Serious Illness
  • Sexual assault
Trauma associated events or situations can be hard for an individual to recognise. Trauma terms for better understanding the types of trauma. The first one is known as Acute Trauma, which is generally connected to a single overwhelming event. Then we have Complex Trauma also known as developmental or relationship trauma, that results from extended exposure to traumatising events. Complex Trauma is when an individual experiences multiple, chronic or prolonged, developmentally unfavourable traumatic events that are often interpersonal and set on early in life. Trauma is arguably an experience or effect from either complex interpersonal trauma or acute trauma. Some people develop post-traumatic stress disorder after exposure to either acute or complex trauma. Post-traumatic stress disorder is the trigger that causes the person to re-experience the feeling of terror or helplessness. Generally, it leads the person in avoiding any cues that might be reminders of the trauma. How do we work with Trauma in people? Trauma is individual-based and considerate of the person and the age of the person. The fundamental pillars needed in attempting to heal the trauma are through 1. Safety, 2. Connections, and 3. Managing Emotions. This is incredibly important when working with children or adolescents. Using trauma-informed approach (DIA), Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT), Cognitive processing therapy (CPT), Exposure therapy (ET), Eye movement Desensitisation and reprocessing (EMDR), Narrative Therapy (NT), Skills training in affective and interpersonal regulation (STAIR) and Stress inoculation training (SIT).

Trauma

Emotional and psychological trauma can occur as the result of extraordinarily life events that shatter your perceived sense of safety and position in the world. Often, these events directly threaten your life or safety and can lead to feelings of isolation and being overwhelmed. Whether the event caused you physical harm, or not, trauma can develop as a reaction to the emotional impact of the situation. Fear and helplessness in the instant can be indicators of trauma.

Traumatic Events

Common events because trauma includes having someone close in your life die unexpectedly, seeing someone be injured or killed, seeing a dead body, being physically or emotionally abused, or being in a life-threatening accident. Physical assault, war, natural disasters, and losing people in your life can all be seen as a threat to your safety. Typically, emotional and psychological trauma can be caused by one of the three following options.

  • Sudden Trauma which are time events including injury, violent attacks, or accident
  • Chronic Trauma can include bullying, dangerous living circumstances, or domestic violence.
  • Overlooked cases such as losing someone important, surgery, or deeply disappointing experiences.

The Impacts of Trauma

All of these circumstances would make anyone experience feelings of fear, sadness, guilt, anger or grief. However, having difficulty coming to terms with the event, losing the ability to deal with daily life, and noticing changes in your sleep, appetite, and social habits can be indicators that you are suffering from trauma. Shock, denial, confusion, anger, anxiety, guilt, withdrawal, sadness, or hopelessness are all feelings that you may experience as part of the trauma. Trauma, however, can also manifest in physical symptoms such as insomnia, nightmares, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, elevated heartbeat, muscle tension and aches. It can have significant impacts on a child’s brain development. Check out this Tedx Talk on how Trauma affects behaviours and the brain.

How to Heal from Trauma

Trauma symptoms can last anywhere between a few days and a few months but can come back suddenly as a response to triggers. Anniversaries of the event, memories that bring up the traumatic event, or other reminders can bring the emotions back. If you are unable to move on from traumatic events, you may be suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder where your nervous system remains in a state of psychological shock and is not capable of processing emotions. In these situations, along with getting active and moving, practising mindfulness, staying connected with friends and family, taking care of your health, making regular appointments with a counsellor can help ease your signs and symptoms. The counsellor will take a personalised approach to find the best methodology on how to help you overcome trauma.

When to Seek help from Trauma

While trauma symptoms and signs can go away over time, it is a good idea to seek help from a trauma expert if you find your emotions and memories are severely impacting your life. Having trouble functioning at home or work, suffering from anxiety or depression, inability to form close relationships, reliving terrifying memories, emotional numbness, or turning to drugs and alcohol are all clear signs to find a licensed professional.

Hi, I’m Katherine Nelson, a counsellor at Counselling at Voxen on the Gold Coast.

When working with clients recovering from PTSD, a few questions about the therapy process come up often. Here are three of the most common:

1. “How long does therapy usually take for PTSD?”

There’s no set timeline, as PTSD affects everyone differently. Some people experience significant relief after 10–20 sessions, especially with targeted approaches like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) or trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). For others, particularly if the trauma was complex or long-term, therapy can take longer. What matters most is creating a strong foundation of safety and trust, so healing can unfold at a pace that feels manageable.

2. “Why can PTSD therapy take longer than other kinds of therapy?”

PTSD often impacts the brain’s sense of safety, memory processing, and emotional regulation. Healing isn’t just about talking through what happened—it’s also about retraining your nervous system to feel safe again. This means we might spend a lot of time building skills like grounding, emotional regulation, and self-compassion before even approaching the trauma memories. Each step is essential to avoid feeling overwhelmed and to make sure the healing is lasting.

3. “Can I speed up the process?”
Therapy works best when we respect your natural healing pace. Trying to rush trauma work can sometimes trigger more distress. That said, being open, practising skills between sessions, and prioritising your mental health can absolutely support and sometimes accelerate progress. We’ll work together to keep you moving forward in a steady, safe way.
Healing from PTSD is a journey—and you don’t have to walk it alone.

Katherine Nelson, Counselling at Voxen

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We fully trust Katherine,s extensive knowledge to help us be better at life. Grateful to have found you.
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Katherine has been an incredible help for me through some really tough times. I always feel validated and safe when talking with her. Katherine has provided me with some excellent tools/skills, for not just my current circumstances but for life. She genuinely wants to see you succeed, couldn’t recommend her enough.
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When I first booked an appointment with Katherine I was really nervous and didn't know what to expect. Katherine is a kind and understanding person. She could tell straight way that was nervous and she made me laugh and feel safe. After the first phone appointment I knew I had made the right choice. Katherine has given me tools and techniques to help me with what I have been going through. I have appreciated everything that she has done for me. It has helped more than I thought. So, thank you Katherine. You are amazing.
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I am so pleased with the results my son has experienced from attending telephone counselling from Katherine. He has made great progress and has insights into some issues that make his day to day living much easier. Thank you
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Katherine has been a tremendous help for my mental health and overall feeling better about myself. Helped me through tough times and events in my life. Couldn’t recommend her enough.
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Katherine helped me through a difficult time recovering from a traumatic work injury, I am so glad I called Converge. Thank you for your help, I’m very thankful.
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Katherine has helped me reach my goals of finding the root cause of my anxiety, and how to use self-care goals to reduce it. I feel that my headspace is in a better place than what it used to be when I first started the counselling sessions. Thank you!
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I first talked with Katherine over the phone to get information on the services she offered. After that brief chat I was convinced that she was the right person for what was needed. Katherine is so understanding, full of empathy and knowledgeable. Over the coming months her sessions were instrumental in providing the tools needed to tackle private matters happening at the time.
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I visited Katherine recently hoping that she might assist with a family issue. I found her professional, friendly and competent. She guided the session with sensitivity, awareness and compassion. She was acutely aware of the verbal conversation between the two parties both in regard to what was said and what was not said, and the body language of the two participants. I would like to highly recommend Katherine as a counsellor for those who need a quietly spoken, intuitive and knowledgeable professional.
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